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introducing our kittens


We got our kittens on Monday. It felt like Christmas morning.


This here is Verna. Named after my Grandma Harrington. She is tiny and meek and seems a little nervous.


This here is Velma. Named after my Grandma Bredberg. Is it offensive to name kittens after your beloved grandma's? Clearly, I think it is an honor. Plus, what are the odds that my grandma's both had stellar v-starting first names?

   
These girls came from the same litter, but Velma is about twice as big as Verna. And Velma is very determined to get out of her nice plastic home, while Verna seems more determined to practice her pouncing on Velma's back.




My favorite part of the day today was hearing Ivar say, "no, no Velma. You cannot get out. You stay in your home, Velma."

dad's retirement weekend





My sister just emailed me, "sister, there is no pressure here only want you to know i have checked your blog 5 times today and i stare at Sedum.  i am craving pictures from our weekend!  but i am also the sister who told you to relax and rest today so there's that, too."

Well, Annika, here are my top twenty favorites. Could have easily posted forty.



In the words of my brother-in-law Jedd, this weekend was epic. Dad, and the ministry he has led as a pastor was celebrated. Mom, the woman behind the man and the one who held everything together on the home front was celebrated. And our whole family was together. We celebrated our family all weekend long.



Here's Simon. I love this kid. He faithfully pulled these little ones around in the wagon two days in a row. Ivar adores his big cousin and we even got to have Simon Friday night for a sleepover. As we drove back to our house with Simon in the backseat Ivar kept saying, "This is fun Simon. Right? This is so fun."



Simon took a little walk through our field on Saturday morning. And he really did a number on his shoes.


We got to go and visit the kittens at the neighbor's house. And some got to go and see the horses too. A perk of living where we do!



You'll notice Sonna has a broken arm. Clearly she is in a cast. But I think she missed the memo. The girl doesn't act any different with that cast. She was tying water balloons (it's waterproof!), canoeing, jumping off of things that made me nervous, but she is not nervous. It's basically an accessory.


And here's the man of the hour. Dad preached at all of the church services for his last time. It was a momentous weekend...I'll have to expand on this another time...you know, with twenty pictures and all.



Oh how we miss our Seattle family! Claire is getting so tall. I just love her to pieces. And so does Elsie.


And Nellie is a joy. She is four and very determined to learn how to do the high monkey bars. Right now she just does the low ones. She told me all about it.


Mom was in her glory with all of her family around. We spent nearly every moment of the three days we had all together. When it was time to all say goodbye, these four older girls tied themselves together so they couldn't be separated. I love that. I wanted to tie myself to them too.


Today we are feeling full and grateful and so sad that it all flew by so fast.


sedum




First, Sedum. It stopped me in my tracks at the flower nursery. I had no idea we could grow succulents here in Minnesota, but apparently we can...and there are so many different kinds! Don't you just want to stick your thumb nail in it?

Second, in other exciting news: my sister blogged yesterday for the first time in two years! It's an awesome glimpse at mothering three girls. Made me laugh a lot.

And finally, we are thrilled to have my brother and his family coming to town this weekend along with a whole lot of other friends and family to celebrate my dad's retirement. There is a luncheon on Sunday and five hundred people have rsvp'd. It's going to be a good time. I get to speak at the program and I can't wait. I've been sitting on a few stories that are bustin' to come out. :)

Happy weekend everybody!

Elsie at eleven months


Elsie turned eleven months yesterday.

Her personality is coming out more and more and we find her absolutely delightful. Bubbly and agreeable.

Her newest trick is a smile with squinty eyes while tucking her chin into her shoulder. We melt.

She's a snuggler. I adore this picture of her with our neighbor girl. She loves the neighbor girls so much.

Elsie enjoys blueberries, bananas and watermelon the most. She's a hearty eater.

And she's a dancer. If I sing or even if there is music on tv, she bops her body up and down.

She has very sensitive skin.

Her words are Mama and Baba and just recently began to comprehend what we are saying. A super fun stage.

She fake coughs from her crib to let us know she's still there.

And so to summarize: she is wonderful.

Josie's riding lesson

Hi everybody! It's Josie writing about my horse riding lesson with Meghan and Elska! (Elska is the horse:)
Meghan is the next door neighbor who owns three other horses named (and I'm probably spelling these wrong) Litley, Dakota, and Cocoa. Every morning this week, I looked out the window to see Meghan riding Cocoa down the road. I thought it was so funny that people ride scooters and bikes in my neighborhood and here is Meghan with her beautiful, tall, dark brown horse trotting down the gravel path. :)


Above, Meghan is walking around and showing me how nice and relaxed Elska is. Meghan is an excellent rider and taught me some of the basics yesterday.


Uncle Rory pointed out that as I was brushing her, her lip hung in the air and was wiggling around. Meghan said that that was a sign of relaxation; along with the droopy eyelids and the bent back leg.


Getting on the horse wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. I've rode only one other time and that was 3 years ago when I was a lot shorter. As my weight climbed up on one side, the saddle slipped, but was soon adjusted.


Meghan was adjusting the foot strap so it matched my leg length. I was paying attention when Uncle Rory suddenly said, "Smile!" and quickly took the picture.


Meghan wanted me to get used to the feeling of the horse moving under me. She grabbed the reigns and gently walked Elska around while teaching me the proper turn signals and how to make her start walking. I simply had to say "walk on" and squeeze my legs together a little bit. That was the easy part. Elska, being so relaxed earlier, wanted to stop more than go. I would get her to walk, but about 3/4 through the track, she would say, "no, I don't want to walk anymore. why don't you try wearing a giant coat in hot, sunny weather with someone sitting on your back and see how long you can last!"


You can clearly see the droopy eyelids in this shot. It was very important to sit with your shoulders, hips, and heels all lined up as you ride. (I tried my best.) It almost looks like Elska has her shoulders slumped with a sad look on her face.


The cones were one of the three exercises Meghan had me walk through. I had to start at the right side, walk through the cones, go right around the first, left around the second, and walk over a small white bar at the end. (You can barely see it in this picture.)


This is the second track. I tried it starting from both directions. I had to walk over the white bar, weave through the cones, and over the thick white bar at the end. Earlier, Elska and I were walking around the rim (called the rail) when she took 2 steps and stopped. Then 2 more, and stopped. This went on for a little more when finally Elska wouldn't move anymore. Megan was behind us and discovered the problem. Let me put it this way: the little brown chucks by the last white pole aren't any chew toys.


Meghan also wanted me to get used to a horse's trot. This is a different kind of horse where instead of a trot it is called... something else that I can't remember. Give me a break, it was almost 24 hours ago:) Because of the different way Elska trots, instead of bouncing up and down, you bounce side to side. Megan said it's an unusual way to move and always makes her laugh.

The whole time I have been typing this, Ivar has come up about three times saying "I wanna see you ride Elska!"

I've had sooooo much fun these past couple days here at The Grovestead! My visit ranged from John Denver, to John Deere to John the deer! I remember two stories I told Ivar at bedtime last night about Jake the Horse, who met a red ladybug named Friend, and about Phil the cow, who needed to listen to his mom who told him not to eat too much grass. :)

I hope to come back real soon!

chicken update

I've heard that I've been slacking in the chicken posts lately. I think the reason I've slowed on my chicken reporting is because now that they are outside with a fence, they don't require a whole lot of attention. They are the easiest animals on the planet. We give them new feed and water every morning and hook the door closed in the evening. And they're happy. And they love us. And they continue to entertain our children.


So up top there is Hamburgerpoopedonthecarpet. A beauty.


And this here is Eggs. Eggs is quite aggressive. I think he is a bully. And I also think he thinks he is at the top of the pecking order.


But here is Almonzo flapping his wings, who I think actually is at the top of the pecking order. He just has confidence like that. I think Eggs is insecure and gets into other chickens business to exert his wanted authority. But Almonzo really is the Alpha Male. Sort of a whole Scar versus Mufasa thing.


I don't have much to report on Zumbrota. This bird sort of gets lost in the bunch, beautiful and black, she or he doesn't seem to need too much extra attention.


Still the favorite is Legos. Our delightful niece, Josie, is here for a few nights and has confirmed that Legos is the most social. Legos lets Josie hold her and is always the first to come out to say hello when she goes for a visit. Plus, just look at how awesome and fluffy this bird is!


And finally, below is Butterscotch Cookies, another bird that doesn't make too much of a scene. Butterscotch is pretty chill, and reminds me a bit of that one guy Bull on that court show that used to be on channel nine on Saturday afternoons growing up. (thanks to a google search: the Bailiff Bull Shannon on Night Court) I'll get a close up and to a comparison another day.


We're thinking we've got a good number of Roosters in the bunch. Which is a total bummer. Because we were going for eggs. But the boys still aren't too loud. At the moment their morning sounds are more like chain smokers barking out a "rook-a-doo" first think in the morning.


But they'll get louder I'm afraid. And when the full on cock-a-doodle-doo comes, we'll have to figure something out since we like our neighbors and want them to keep liking us.

Having Josie here has been a blast. Last night I used her as a model for the picture I needed for The Soul Sisterhood post that went up today. Be sure to go over and check today's post on the importance of a Strong Finish.